WHAT'S LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT.
Tina Turner; an American Icon. She was a singer, song writer, actress and author. Dubbed the “Queen of Rock n Roll.” Her vocal prowess, raspy voice and electrifying stage presence broke racial barriers in rock music. “What’s love got to do with it” was a # 1 hit single on the Rock n Roll billboard charts.
“The Secret Laws of Attraction”; a book written by Talane Miedane, author of the “Bestseller book; “Coach Yourself to Success.” This book adds meaning to the words; "What's love got to do it." Allow me to elaborate please:
Here’s 3 insightful Quotes: Quote #1 "The Secret Laws of Attraction:" {Page 6} “Don’t make the mistake of waiting for a "soulmate" to start living your life. When you are fully expressing your values, you are incredibly attractive—-down right irresistible.
Quote#2: “The Secret Laws of Attraction:” {Page 3} “People who have fulfilled their personal and emotional needs are very attractive, even if they don’t have much in the looks or money department. "They radiate a sense of self-confidence and self-awareness.”
Quote#3: “The Secret Laws of Attraction:” {Page 3} “Most people think that if someone needs you that is good. That means they love you. “Not true.” True love can only be freely given. You cannot force or demand someone to love you. “You can only attract love.”
That reminds me of my 2nd marriage partner of eight years. She was a wonderful homemaker. She was great in the kitchen, preparing meals; awesome bed partner; and great at house cleanliness. But she had a very insecure personality; and what I discovered about “insecure people” will amaze you. Insecure people are dangerous people. They will choke the life, sanity, and emotionally drain you. “Insecure people” will attempt to annihilate you from friends and family membors, all in the name of love and marriage.
“Insecure people” will use cleverly disguised words to entrap you. Words like; Where are you? Are you still at work? What time will you be home? Are you still at your mothers house? Insecure people will create barriers and entrapments to restrict your personal freedom, and use that to control and manipulate you. They will use emotional empathy to control you. But “thank God” through prayer and getting closer to God, I was able to break free from the bondage of that "eight year marriage." “If you or someone you know or care about is involved in this type of controlling relationship; these are the warning signs.” This book is a must read, plus it gives you insights into how people behave emotionally. This book is for individuals struggling with identity issues, and controlling partners within relationships or marriage.”
